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Ep011: #GoodAncestor Robin DiAngelo on White Fragility

Voices

I reached out to some folks that I trust, some are former co-workers, some are former students in an effort for voices to be heard regarding the current situation that we find ourselves in. I recognize my privilege, and as much as I think I understand, I KNOW that I cannot fully give voice to what is happening. Even though my heart and mind are in the right space, it's not my voice that needs to be amplified. This is my friend  Nathan Bruce . I have not edited his words in any way. Please take a moment and consider what he has to say. In my career, I do a ton of writing. I work in software and I often create material that communicates technical ideas, system architecture, documentation that reflects work that has been done or work that is to be done, and documentation that lays out how to operate custom software. This type of writing, though, is much different. It isn’t often that I get the opportunity to attempt to capture meaningful thoughts on relevant topics outside of sof...

Home Altars

If you were to walk into my home, you might be quite surprised to see such a plethora of religious images and figures. My house is an all opportunity home where you will see many items, some of them even conflicting. These items are comforting to me. I want to see your home altars to your various personalities.

The Apartheid of the Closet

Listen my children and you will hear of the struggles and burdens of what it was like to be Queer (before Stonewall). Before the Stonewall Inn riots, our kind were really living in “the apartheid of the closet.” Even as today, there was a concerted effort to regulate homosexuality. Before 1900, gender inversion was the focus of regulation.    The characteristic rules used to police gender nonconformity were laws prohibiting crossdressing and prostitution. Laws and ordinances prohibiting public lewdness, sexual solicitation, indecent assignation, disorderly conduct and degeneracy, lewd vagrancy, and independent exposure were adopted, by and large, to control prostitution (a type of gender inversion). Sodomy laws, originally adopted to prohibit mainly anal but transformed to cover oral sex and target “female impersonators” were also significant. There were at least three watershed moments of the early 20 th century that directly contributed to the emerg...

I Am From

The following was part of an exercise that was used in a facilitator training session for SafeZone.  I may be tweaking this until I get it right, but here is what I have for now.  This is taken from Writing to Change the World. I am from Mickey and Freda, Papaw Fitzpatrick and Virginia, Roger and Judy. From Central Appalachia and mid-plateau of southern West Virginia, from old mountains and creeks / rivers full of hellbenders, bluegill, catfish, and copperheads. From dirt roads paved with "red dawg" and sprinkled with waste oil to keep down dust.From campsite stories of haints, Mothman and "The Mad Butcher of Fayette County." From pots of brown beans, onions and butter, cornbread, venison, home grown maters, cucumbers and onions floating in vinegar, and poke salit. From fiercely self sufficient stock, extreme poverty, and Jesus only with ciggies and backey spitoons made from Folgers coffee cans. From large extended families, 2nd and 3rd cousins all account...

Dear Mr. President and Speaker of the House

Dear Mr. President and Speaker of the House, With all due respect (as I do acknowledge the importance of the positions to which you now occupy) to blame the fiasco that we now know Trumpcare upon the Democrats in Congress is, well, just asinine. This is not playing the blame game, here is the truth. Your party was swept into power during the last election cycle and holds all the power needed to pass your beloved legislation. Both divisions of Congress AND the Office of the Presidency are squarely and securely in YOUR control. And yet you blame the Democrats for your failure to pass your holy grail legislation (to defeat the demonic ACA as though it were a destructive dragon pillaging and destroying America)? Pish posh! You knew that no Democratic legislator worth  their salt was going to join you in beginning the disastrous process of disenrollment  of millions upon millions of fellow Americans from their health coverage. You knew this, and you didn't mind as you also were...